I am really curious about Rāma’s love and devotion to Sīta. It is clear that he certainly loves her, and that is made especially apparent in this section of the story where we hear of his response to their separation. Even just in the beginning of this excerpt, he says the loveliness of their surroundings just “sharpens [his] sorrow at the separation from Sīta” (255). And he takes a break from this by helping Sugriva, but once they kill Vali, Rāma is right back where he was: “tormented with grief” (285). When Hanuman has later found Sīta, he even gives a very detailed description of just how distraught and broken Rāmaa is over her abduction and separation from him (363). I guess my question is how can he later question her purity to the point of banishing her once they are reunited? I know we haven’t gotten there in the reading yet, but the introduction and the lecture videos and other summaries we have discussed all tell of how Rāma rejects her and claims that the sole reason he fought this war was to vindicate his honor. But, these descriptions of how affected Rāma is by the separation from his wife do not display a man who is simply trying to do his duty and right the wrongs done to him. That just does not make sense in my mind, and maybe that articulates that Rāma truly was just rejecting Sīta out of dharmic necessity, but that does not add up.
Even though Rama loves Sita, it is said that she loves him twice as much as he loved her. This is weird seeing as he was so distraught by her abduction. His grief is so great but he still only loved his wife at half the level she loved him.
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Hey Rachel! I loved hearing your view and questions about Rama's sorrow. His relationship with Sita is definitely complex. You mentioned that it may be the case that he is simply trying to do his duty by fighting. Would he also consider banishing Sita as part of his duty? From what we heard, he banishes her in order to remain honorable but is this kind of honorability necessary for fulfilling one's dharma?
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Rachel,
Some good stuff here! I really like what this says about Ramas character and the sometimes restricting nature of Dharma. The importance of honor and the lengths that people go in order to uphold it is something that is very interesting, and should be further explored as we continue to read!
Some good stuff here! I really like what this says about Ramas character and the sometimes restricting nature of Dharma. The importance of honor and the lengths that people go in order to uphold it is something that is very interesting, and should be further explored as we continue to read!
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