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Week 3 Discussion

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From the wide array of characters from The Ramayana, I consider Sita to be the most captivating. She is deemed “virtuous” by Anusuya, a wife of a sage who is “so virtuous that she is honoured by all people” (195-96). If a fellow woman of this status applauds Sita’s behaviors, then she must truly be worthy. I find it interesting, though, how she “loved Rama twice as much as he loved her” (102). Sita follows Rama, a man that loves her less than she loves him, into the wilderness, and never complains. In fact, she barely speaks at all. The story hardly presents dialogue from Sita (except for 203-05, 231-33, and some of 235-238), yet she is such a righteous character. Rama is righteous and he receives all of the epic’s attention, but Sita doesn’t. She is just, simply, there. When she is mentioned, it’s oftentimes in association with Rama. Is she not her own individual person? Is she not a key role? Plus, it seems odd to me that the story claims Sita as the one interested in the false, golden/silver deer. Sita became infatuated by it, causing Rama to search for it. As the story says, “She had been completely deceived’ (229). Well, Rama was, too. While his searching occurs, Sita is abducted by Ravana (237). She appears virtuous, yet foolish. Did the story intentionally create this impression of her? A passage says, “I have spoken from the foolishness of being a woman” (205). This sounds belittling. I believe she doesn’t receive the respect and recognition she deserves in the narrative nor does she fully respect herself as a woman. The only character thus far to respect her actions besides Anusuya is Agastya (207). Sita does everything for Rama, making her look like a little puppet just living in Rama’s world. Is she not more?

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    As someone who also considers Sīta to be incredibly fascinating, you described my feelings so well! It is disheartening at times to see her be looked down upon, even though she is honorable in her own right. Is she belittled because of her actions, or is she belittled because of her gender? Unfortunately, it seems to be the latter, as you point out with quotes from the text, Sam- I'm inclined to say it's a product of sexism. I hope that the way Sīta is spoken of will improve, but from what I have heard of the Rāmāyana's end, I do not think it will.
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    I agree with both of your statements. The story seems to paint Sita’s only fault is in being born a female. All her woes and misfortunes stem from her femininity. I wonder how it is argued that the imbalance of love described between Sita and Rama is still dharmic? How does Rama live his dharma as a husband when the two are unequally devoted to one another? Is it common for women to be depicted as property? Knowing what will occur towards the end of the tale, with Rama’s denial of Sita, I cannot help but feel deeply sympathetic towards her.
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    Sam,

    Some good stuff! I really like what you are saying about the belittling of Sita being tied to her role as well as her gender, and think we can even take it past these things. It seems to me that most characters and small and belittled when placed next to Rama, since this story seems bent on glorifying Rama in every way possible. Sita seems to be the character that is placed next to Rama the most, so it may be that since there is a constant comparison, she will always look bad. 

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    I completely agree with what you are saying about how Sita's only negative quality is in being a woman. She is stripped of individuality in a sense.  I found what you said about the deer to be interesting especially when considered in connection with Sita's gender. I think it could be represented as Sita being the cause of Rama's mistake with the deer. A woman was at the center of a man's fault. Therefore, in a way he was not at fault to seek out the deer, but she was. 
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    Sam, I agree with you. With the way she was presented in the introduction and the way she is talked about I thought she would be a lot more present in the story. I am very interested to see how her dharma as a good wife compares to what we would typically think of as a stereotypical "biblical" wife. I think these would be pretty similar. I also am interested to see how the rest of her story plays out and if she becomes more present later on in the epic. 
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