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Finding connections

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Throughout my internship at Highlands UMC as an inclusion intern, I have been able to connect my experience to broader social issues. Rea and I have been working on "The Open Table Project" which is our adviser's newest project to raise awareness in the LGBTQIAP+ community. 

While our adviser made this project before the pandemic, I believe that this program will impact this community more now than ever. This program and church as a whole have a multitude of reasons to be in existence. After many zoom calls with the staff and surrounding ministries, it is obvious that this church is ministering to many people who have previously felt unwelcome at other churches. This specific project assigned to Rea and I was to raise awareness but I believe that it is the start of more LGBTQ+ people finding connection and finding more resources to feel apart of a community, especially in the time of a pandemic; it will address isolation, lack of education on this community, and increasing overall awareness.

 I see strategies from Getting to Maybe being enacted in the way that there are multiple ways to solve a problem. In the earlier chapters, we read about how a community addressed the horrible HIV/ AIDS issue by using humor. The commercials on television started to be about people dressed as condoms, lying on a condom shaped bed, with the overall plot being that women find condoms attractive. By using humor, the community slowly tackled this issue. There are many ways to address the issue of isolation in the queer community but I really admire the methods my advisor is choosing. This month has shaped my interest in future civic involvement by increasing my desire to change the way that members of the LGBTQIAP+ community are treated in churches and helped me realize that you do not have to be fully educated on every term and definition to be a great ally. Being an ally looks like being a good listener and creating relationships.

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  1. Re: Finding connections
    Just by reading this, especially your last two sentences, I feel like I have learned so much about being an ally. Reading your and Rae's responses has given me so much insight about how the LGBTQIAP+ community is treated in churches. I am so thankful for churches like Highland UMC that are increasing overall awareness of the LGBTQIAP+ community because the church as we know it should be all-inclusive, accepting, and welcoming. Thank you so much for teaching us that we can do our part as individuals to become great allies just by simply being good listeners and creating relationships.
  2. Reply
    You're doing amazing work. So many members of the LGBT+ community already feel isolated in our society, and I can't imagine how much this has worsened due to the pandemic. You are right that the work you are doing is needed now more than ever. I am a proud member of the United Methodist Church and love how we preach acceptance of all. I hope more church denominations join us in including the LGBT+ community as we make Heaven crowded! smile
  3. Re: Finding connections
    It sounds like you've been doing amazing things! I think it's great that you are working with Highlands to be an activist for the LGBTQIA+ community. They need more allies like you and Rea to raise awareness. It's sad to think that this community of people are being discriminated against and can't feel comfortable in their own skin, and are afraid of missed opportunities because of it. 
  4. Re: Finding connections
    You write "There are many ways to address the issue of isolation in the queer community but I really admire the methods my advisor is choosing." Can you talk more about those methods, why he chose them, and how they will influence your civic engagement going forward? Are there lessons you can learn here that you can implement in other kinds of community work?
  5. Many ways
    I agree that this book eased the pressure of trying to find the "right" answer for the problem we were addressing. It can seem very overwhelming to approach a topic so far reaching as LGBTQ+ advancement.