Chapters 7 & 8
Connected: "When a person is good at getting things done, or at helping others to do them, he or she can come to think they are responsible for what happens. And they're not. Whether the outcome is good or bad, it is hubris to accept too much blame or praise." (page 199) I think like this sometimes when I am helping a friend do a task whether it is big or small, even at my work outside of school. I think it is just my frame of mind. I work efficiently and try my best to be successful. Having this mindset that when things don't go as planned they are not successful, is not always positive and leads to more conflicts than resolutions.
Question: How can we become more focused on positively impacting others instead of sticking to a routine formula that we think paints the perfect picture of society?